We all have our favorite songs, and sometimes our favorite songs don’t fit neatly into the event that we’ve planned. Luckily, this pesky little problem doesn’t have to mean you’re relegated to a musical menu of Ave Maria’s and Canon in D’s.
Special music doesn’t have to just happen at the wedding ceremony in a certain way, and opening up the places to infuse your life with song can create a really memorable journey into your next phase of your relationship.
If you’re looking for a fun and memorable way to say “I love you” to the bride in your life, sending her a surprise song can be a really special way to do just that.
Who Sends a Surprise Song?
- The groom-to-be can send one to his glowing fiance
- A member of the immediate or extended family
- A friend who wants to do something a little different
- You tell me!
When to Wield the Surprise Song:
- At her office – Yes, like a singing telegram. I show up with a recording or a musical buddy in tow and we serenade her. I’ve always loved this. (Don’t worry, there will be no Gorilla Grams!)
- At the rehearsal – as the officiant runs through the order of events, she doesn’t need to know that the song I’m about to run through is a special one just for her and not on the program she’s approved.
- At the rehearsal dinner – (and my personal favorite!) Gathering, mingling, schmoozing, hugging, toasting, eating, thanking, smiling…take a pause and give her three minutes to sit back and breathe in the moment while she’s transported to another time and place and we sing to her.
- At the actual wedding ceremony – for the bold and courageous only, and only when armed and ready with tissues! Depending on the song selection, this might result in tears, but can be a powerful move nonetheless.
- After the first dance – That song that isn’t right for your first dance together might be the perfect musical tribute to her and your relationship.
Email me at heather@heatherhightower.com with the plot and song you have in mind, and we’ll take it from there.








